Delusional Thursday: Overambitious but Attainable Goals

My goals for 2012 are a bit delusional and overambitious but I figured what the hell! It fits right in with my super busy schedule and I really believe, with help from my husband, that these goals are attainable. I am a list person, so here we go . . .


1.) Write every day - it could be a blurb, blog post, journal, plotline for a new novel idea. Doesn't matter. Just get it in writing! It's been difficult these past two years to get in a writing schedule but I plan on joining Hart's writing sprints since they don't take up so much time and many have commented that these are really helpful in establishing a routine.

2.) Go to Hawaii for my 10th Anniversary - It was where we wanted to go for our honeymoon when we first married. However, we couldn't afford it and decided on going to Puerto Rico, instead. I'm researching renting a vacation home for 7 days, booking the flight and car rental. That's my plan for this trip so far.

3.) Buy a home or condo - My husband and I have been doing the research for two years and now I think in 2012, we are ready to make the commitment.

4.) Change my health habits - I want to live longer! I want to spend more years with hubby and see my kids grow into awesome adults.
a.) Eat better - more whole grains, vegetables and water
b.) Stop smoking -this is a big one and I know it's not going to be easy
c.) Exercise - get into a routine of 3 times per week and slowly increase
d.) Lose the weight so that I don't have to take high blood pressure medication.

Wow! Delusional to do all at once but I think I'll just change one thing at a time. Once I get one of these factors under control, I'll tackle another one.

5.) Finances - I've already begun this but want to tighten them as we will need a hefty down payment for the house. I figured we could stop eating out so much (maybe bring it down to once per week), pay double the minimum payment for credit cards, and don't make any unnecessary purchases without thinking about it for at least 30 days. I figured if I wait a month, I may not even want that item any more.

These are my five ambitious goals for this year. I've broken them down further on paper with the steps on how to achieve them but I didn't want to bore anyone with the details.

What are your goals for 2012? We at the Burrow would like to know. :D

Just Keep Climbing

So I've been thinking a little about movies... and books... and a writing career... And I've noticed something... Done right, the plot of all of these has the same pattern... But this catches a lot of writers off guard, I think, so I am going to lay it out for you...


So you know how in... say a Thriller... best-selling genre... always dominates the top of the Best Sellers list... there is something you can count on...


The MC starts out with their mission... and they doubt they can do it, and then they begin collecting resources, and think they have it figured out and fight the good fight... they think they are there... the tension eases for thirty seconds... and then the stakes are increased... And then he keeps going, because heck, he's committed... and he faces obstacles and works hard and he thinks he's almost there, and then the stakes go up again... usually this time to put deathly consequences on failure for him or someone he loves... and then he feels he MUST, and he pulls out all stops to figure it out... and gets a brief break but realizes there is no turning back now... and FINALLY, there is a HUGE push!


So Let's Tell This Tale

In second person present, because there are only so many opportunities to use second person, eh?

Very Steep Hill Source

You are living your life. You dabble in writing and have very vague dreams to some day write novels. But it doesn't seem possible. A little poetry, sure, but you are an unassuming sort, and you really just don't think you have what it takes.

But one day an idea takes hold. It sinks its teeth in and refuses to NOT be written. You are embarrassed to say anything to anyone, and hide in a closet and write a first chapter. It's not bad. In fact, you think... maybe it's good... you have a friend who writes and so you timidly approach her and share your idea. She says 'You should write it!' (it crosses your mind she might be cruel, but it is, after all, what you wanted to hear). You write a little more and you show her... she encourages you, and you emotionally COMMIT... You have been called to action.

Your writer friend, as lovely mentor says things to you like 'write every day. If you show up regularly, your muse will too.' or 'you know, if you write just one page a day, in a year you've written a book.' You can't quite believe these things are true... except you want to, so you try to... and what do you know. You make progress.

You make GOOD progress! You're the little engine that could!

I think I can. I think I can. I think I can... And... there it is... the summit... you are almost there... YOU'VE WRITTEN A FREAKING BOOK!

But wait... NOW, lying, misleading mentor the traitor says you need to CELEBRATE (okay, well that part's okay). And commit to LEARNING HOW TO WRITE A BOOK. Say what? You just WROTE a freaking book!

“No,” she says. “You need to learn the technicalities—what a real book needs. Form. Structure. Rules. You need to read books and blogs... you have to suck people in the first page. You need to have a theme. You need to have a coherent HOOK."


AND THEN YOU NEED TO REWRITE THE FREAKING BOOK.

Now you are sure your mentor must be really anal and clearly you don't need that much. Well, sure, you need to EDIT... you go through carefully correcting typos. There are some parts that aren't really necessary, but they're so GOOD... you know... just great writing... so they need to be there. You hear adverbs are unpopular and active verbs are best, so you go through and change all your dialog tags to screamed, chastised, sniped, oozed... Surely this is what's meant...

Your mentor suggests maybe it is time to find some peer readers—that feedback is good. But you don't know any writers, so you ask your mom and sister to read. They love it. You are validated.

You begin to search for agents. The ones who blog look good. You query Janet Reid and Kristin Nelson.


Form Refusals.

You meet another writer you really respect who reads a chapter and suggests a couple blogs with some really good advice.

Just 'said'? You're kidding. What about all those strong talking verbs?

Each scene has to move the story ahead? Really?

Can't start with a dream? Back story in tiny doses?

ACK!

And so you coast half way back down and start the slow climb again... the rewrite...

And you work your tail off... this is hard... not as hard as WRITING the book, but much harder than what your idea of editing had been before your epiphany... but lo and behold... this time you get some nibbles... this time there is some evidence you might have reached...

Mediocre.

Whitebird Battlefield, Idaho

GADS, why is this so hard!? But finally you get some specific advice from a real publishing professional... and you make THOSE changes... and you crest another rise.... The next rise you get an agent... and you feel like you've crested the biggest hill... but it's NOT the biggest... not by a long shot... it was just big enough you couldn't see the next one past it...

Now... with agent advice and help you go on to submission... Getting an editor to like your book is HUGE, but it is only the first of a double hurdle... Then there is the board... then the editor changes, and THEN... the release and marketing...



The point is, each rise has another after it, and each builds the stakes and... this is the hard piece... each rise is followed by another...

Published
Best seller
Another book
Name bigger than the title
Movie


There is always something else to strive for.

I think we have a careful trick to both appreciate each rise we crest and not to let that be enough. We need to celebrate, then take the next step. Again and again.